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9:13PM - Sunday September 25, 2005 . . . . . . So, sometimes it is good to do unto others what they unselfishly do unto you over and over and over again. This morning, Kryptonite let me know that the previous evenings escapades had left his cock chafed and unenthusiastic for any morning romping. So, while we were lazing about in bed, well, his cock had other ideas. So I played around a bit, tickling his glans, squeezing it, and then got out the lube and settled in to give him a long wet lazy hand job. Lazy because I was just going to lie beside him and take my time with it, wet because of the chafing, and long, well, because sometimes it's nice to be leisurely about these things. They don't have to be so totally goal oriented. I know there's fancy names out there for all the things I did, go search on www.sexuality.org for some--all I did was play. I took my time, rested my head on his chest, listened to his breathing, smiled gleefully at the occasional moan, felt for the changes in his cock... It was really lovely to just be focused on him for a change. He's usually so focused on my pleasure that he treats his more as an afterthought. I got him close to coming a couple of times--I got the moans, his cock swelled a bit, but his cock is a bit finicky when he gets close to coming. He likes to have exactly the same stroke, every time, and not being the cock owner, that can be pretty hard to do. I can't feel the minute changes in my hand pressure like he can, but it seems to make a difference. So after a good long time of playing, using one hand, sometimes two, stroking nad holding his balls, sometimes not, I came upon a twisting downward motion that he liked a lot. In no time at all after starting it I had him on the brink. There was a bit of suspense as I strived to maintain my stroke, and then ahhh yes! There, there was the reward for my patience and care, and his letting go and letting me play. So fun. He said "Thank you," and I replied, "My pleasure," and then I wiped us off and snuggled in for some more quality time. It's so hard to describe how I felt, but I just had so much fun doing that. We used to give each other handjobs all the time when we first started seeing each other because that's how things worked best. We took a long time learning about each other's bodies, and I still get handjobs as part of foreplay all the time, but I don't do for him as much because we just have a lot more penis-invagina sex now. Which I love by the way. Sometimes it's just nice to be the giver and let the otehr just receive. I like it. I won't go so long between letting it happen again.
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